Decide this minute to never again beg anyone for the respect, and attention that you should be showing yourself.
Be your own best friend.
Trust your inner spirit and follow your heart. Accept who you are completely, the good and the bad, and make changes in your life as YOU see fit, not because you think anyone else wants you to be different, but because you know it’s the right thing to do, for YOU.
Be the person you will be happy to live with for the duration of your life.
Don’t rely on anyone else, for your happiness and self-worth, because in the end they will always let you down.
Know that if you can’t love and respect yourself, no one else will be able to either.
Self judgement is the biggest killer.