Sometimes it doesn’t take as much strength to do things as it does to decide what to do, we all know life is filled with difficult decisions. And as you move through life you will come up on many forks in the road where both paths look equally as promising.
The important thing is not which path you choose, but that you do in fact choose a path.
Deciding sometimes hurts.
Not knowing which path to take can be painful. But nothing is more disheartening than never making a decision.
If you never choose a road, you will never know where it leads. So when you’re faced with two equally good options, don’t be one of the people who choose the third option, to not choose because mistakes and setbacks are simply a form of practice. If the road is easy and free of bumps, you’re likely going the wrong way. The bumps in the road teach you what you need to know to progress down a path that is all your own.
Sometimes things have to go wrong. Sometimes your need to change a flat tire or two before you can move along that road.
Just try to remember to not miss the silver lining because you are looking for gold.
It’s okay to not have all the answers yet. In fact, you’ll never have all the answers.
Sometimes being strong is the only choice you have.
There are some things in life that you may never completely get over, I know this all too well.
The best you may be able to do is get through them slowly, and that’s perfectly okay.
Just continue the journey, focus on the present, do your best, and trust the process. The struggle forward is worth the effort. There’s still a lot of beauty left to be seen on the road ahead, even though it may not be the way you saw your future, it’s still there to see.
Life is often unpredictable.
Some of the greatest moments in your life won’t necessarily be the things you do.. they’ll be things that happen to you. That doesn’t mean you can’t take action to affect the outcome of your life. You have to take action, and you will. But don’t forget that on any day, you can step out the front door and your whole life can change in an instant for better or worse.
Universe has a plan that’s always in motion.
A baby bird flaps its wings and it starts to hail.. it’s a scary thought, but it happens and it’s part of life’s cycle. All these little components of Mother Nature, constantly working.. sometimes forcing you to struggle, and sometimes making sure you end up happy and complete. Either way you will live an unpredictable life, through good and bad times, in turn making you the person you are today.
Remind yourself that there’s scarcely any happiness, passion or success without struggle.
If the road is easy, you’re likely going the wrong way.
Everything that happens helps you grow, even if it’s hard to see right now. Circumstances will direct you, correct you, and perfect you over time. Sometimes these circumstances knock you down, hard. There will be times when it seems like everything that could possibly go wrong is going wrong. And you might feel like you will be stuck in this rut forever, but you won’t.
When you feel like quitting, remember that sometimes things have to go very wrong before they can be right. Sometimes you have to go through the worst, to arrive at your best.
Because our most significant opportunities are often found in times of great difficulty. Thus, you will face your greatest opposition when you are closest to your biggest miracle.
As children, we are seldom told we have a place in life that is uniquely ours alone. Instead, we are encouraged to believe that our life should somehow fulfil the expectations of others.
That we should find our happiness exactly as they have found theirs.
Rather than being taught to ask ourselves who we really are.
We are trained to ask others for permission.
We are, in effect, schooled to live other people’s versions of their lives.
Every day is designed and developed as told to us by someone else!
And then one day when we break free to survey our dreams, seeking to fulfil ourselves, we see that most of our own dreams have gone unfulfilled because we believed, and those around us believed, that what we wanted for ourselves was somehow beyond our reach.
It’s time to unlearn these lies and make changes.
It takes courage to grow wiser and become who we really are.
But if you believe in yourself and your dreams, you have to chase them, you have to fulfil them and become who you really are, NOT who you are told to be.
Live learn and love for yourself instead of others.
How can we truly love ourselves and be loved by others if we have no idea who we really are inside.
It’s up to you and only you to find that, to find you.